1-Put parameters. Give your mother-in-law to understand that if or if, before visiting your house, she must notify them in advance, never make any quick decision, say things like: I will talk to my wife and we will notify you later. If he does not want to listen to you, cut off the habit of getting between the two of you, if he has house keys to go whenever he wants without having to warn you, change the lock on the door.
2-Get a phone that has voice messages and at the same time answering, in this way, you will be the one who decides when to be in the company of another person and not the opposite.
3- Keep in mind that these measures will have an effect on your wife, you have to teach her to start to get the idea that her mother has to respect her space, that she is not the same little girl as always where everything that happened to her was going running into his mother’s arms.
4-Communicate with your wife and make it very clear about the relationship with your mother-in-law, the ideal is for her to set limits for her mother about her new family and the mother has to respect what her daughter tells her, but you two they must 100% agree with that problem. You must do what is right for your wife and always respect the relationship he has with his mother, but explain and clearly explain your needs as a man and the space you need, but above all, let him be very aware that she is already an adult and that she must learn to solve their own problems without having to count on the support of their mother, which is time to learn to live their own lives without the intervention or interference of the parents.
5-Try to resolve the offenses or negative behaviors that your mother-in-law does, sometimes it may be that it offends you directly, at other times it may be done discreetly or trying to manipulate the situation, remember, your mother-in-law is not a demon, she is just trying not to lose his daughter.
Leave me your comments and give me your opinion if you have one of these mothers-in-law who wants to be getting into everything, or if she wants to be taking your life as if you were a child.
